Boredom is the root of all evil--the despairing refusal to be oneself.
By Kierkegaard Søren.
Boredom often leads to depression and it affects us in different ways. Many international women in the USA are suffering from this disease as they cannot work because of visa status restrictions.
After marriage I was given the choice between Career and family and I chose the latter. I came to USA in February 2011. Quitting my job and coming here on dependent visa was not an easy decision to make. For one complete month I enjoyed “The beauty of doing nothing” but afterwards excitement turned into boredom. I did nothing except to stare at the wall for most of the day.
After a while I realized it can be overcome by having positive attitude towards life. Instead of taking it as a threat, now I consider it as an opportunity to learn new things which otherwise while working would not have been possible.
Many things can be done to keep you busy and Volunteering is one of them. I feel volunteering in the community is the wonderful way to get adjusted in the US work environment. You not only gain valuable US based skills but some work experience to mention it in your resume. There are many websites which offer Voluntary jobs matched to individual’s skills and interests. I found one through idealist.org site. I am working on various projects for Literacy volunteers of Massachusetts suited to my HR background. It is helping me to regain my self confidence and self esteem.
One can create blog of their own. Blogging has gained momentum these days. It’s a good medium to put your opinions or thoughts into writing. You can always start writing blog suited to your interests. It is not only helping me to improve my writing skills but also gain confidence.
Centre for Adult Education offer various courses suited to your interests. You can enrol for classes like cooking, foreign language, Gardening, creative writing and many more. I am thinking to enrol for creative writing classes to further improve my piece of writing.
If you are interested in learning, you can always apply for distance education course through Harvard extension School programs or some other top colleges. Their names always look good on resume. J
Well I feel, Instead of cribbing we should try to see the brighter side of the picture. It’s never too late start working towards making things better.
P.S- “When life gives you a hundred reasons to cry, show life that you have a thousand reasons to smile.”
